People of our young days (that were the late 1960s-70s) would fondly recall with nostalgia, that peppy tune from the hugely popular Rock Hudson-Gina Lollobrigida comedy “Come September” which went on to become a must ( and mast mast ! ) number for all the band-walas to which the inebriated baratis would vigorously perform their version of rock & roll, bhangra and twists ! Not surprisingly it was later adapted into a grooving Hindi film song ‘Nazrein Mili…’ in the Bollywood film ‘Raja’  and picturised on the legendary Madhuri Dixit !

September used to be a cool month then, till the global warming hit us in the last few decades and it lost its nice sheen. In fact, the breezy autumn-y flavour that this season earlier carried  has mutated into differing climates depending on if you’re in the North (still hot & humid), South (even hotter), East (uncertain weather) or West (rainy and windy). Then there are unexpected cloudbursts and devasating flash floods inundating life and property in many parts of our diverse topography from plains to the hills. It’s just not the same and no longer predictable !

Today, the coolest and most happening month is undoubtedly December, not because of the winter holidays and Yuletide spirit but because the weather seems to finally settle down to everyone’s liking but for how long can’t really be predicted in these times. Meanwhile, why not have a revised signature tune to welcome ‘September’ month which encapsulates all the Indian flavours but is nice and catchy with a lovely mash-up of voices and sounds. For me & my siblings & family we’d go for nostalgia with ‘Papa Kehte Hain’ , as it’s the birth month of our dear Dad !

It’s said people born in September tend to have better muscle strength and are more physically active at an earlier stage, which can even develop into a lifelong positive trait. It’s also observed that they’re very talented, sensitive, tender-hearted and passionate but they portray themselves as very strong persons. These people get everything in their life but for that they have to struggle a lot. That accounts for the large number of legendary figures who were September born. From Queen Elizabeth, Dame Agatha Christie and enigmatic actress Greta Garbo to iconic the Mangeshkar sisters Lata and Asha and Bollywood all time great, Shabana Azmi, the illustrious list includes artists, scientists, billionaires and sportspersons.

Despite the major festive season that’s arrived and is to follow (in Mumbai and other places) with all its fervor and  bon-homie, the heat’s full on speaking of the political parties and their on-going differences and disputes ! But then September has its contradictions like all of us !

Among the compulsions of our work life was the formal dress code we had to adhere to as responsible members of the banking tribe. Office-wear set for Senior Management was the special tie with Organizational logo in the middle, worn over a full sleeved shirt. Bank’s ‘Top Brass’ had to comply with mandatory jacket & tie to look imposing and play part of a ‘financial honcho’ to the hilt or at least appear as one.   

Megacities like bustling Mumbai with its humid, stifling weather (barring two monsoon months), commuting by local trains is only for rough and tough and niceties like jostling crowds adorned in full shirt and tie are an anachronism. Most of us would lock our ties (with the knots intact) in the office drawer to be worn only while at work. The pressed full sleeve shirt we started with, would get bedraggled by the time we’d reach our office.    

After decades of being confined to strait-jacketed office attire, when retirement came most swore never to get ‘tied’ around the neck (barring in winter weddings) or wear a shirt with long sleeves. With youthful exuberance, we were latching on to the smart tees & sweat shirts, often with floral designs that elicited shocked looks from spouses on this Gen-Zee like cool quotient ! The loose, comfy “Bush shirt” came in handy. Incidentally one finds that this name was given to the apparel as it was originally designed for British troops serving in the African bush (wilderness) during the 19^th/early 20th centuries. 

That said, I’ve always had certain predilections on how shirts (even short sleeved ones)  should be properly worn. My sartorial take is shirts be tucked in to provide a neat, smart appearance (especially in semi-formal situations or when wearing a suit). Tucking can also accentuate a defined waistline, enhance silhouette of leaner physiques, and create a polished, put-together look. Historically, tucking also provided protection and kept the outer clothing clean from the body. Offices continue to frown on Staff coming in Tees !

Fashion wise the ‘tucked in’ look is now relegated to yester-years as being retro and leaving a T-shirt un-tucked is generally felt more casual and wearer friendly. It’s a common choice for casual outings, hanging out with friends, or at home. One of my friends, who’s a well known film-maker prefers to wear a shirt that hangs out giving him a ‘avante garde’ persona. Another style that’s much in vogue is the shirt left half hanging out, half-tucked in. Bohemian in statement, it shows rebellion against rule.  

Fashion trends since ages have been set by stars and designers but since the last few decades when the ‘angry young man’ appeared on the scene and decided to beat the baddies to a pulp, masculinity gets defined by bare torsos and six packs. The film’s hero has his shirt unbuttoned with a coloured vest below covering rippling muscles. The ‘gym’ industry has really picked up and more than acting skill it’s about fitness.

Eventually it’s what suits you & your attitude to life. For the confused, also befriend the versatile ‘Kurta’! It works for all occasions and covers every physical blemish !

While the world has been grappling with major geo-political fissures, in the last year or so we’ve witnessed high pitched mass hysteria in the media, discussions and the coverage of diplomatic blasé and blushes, blown out of proportion by partisan conclusions and divisive views built on wild theories and conjectures that seem more bizarre than a faultily written film script.  

How would writers of classic literature respond, if they were around today ? Many of us would recall these zany lines from the wise Walrus (one of the fascinating characters from Lewis Carol’s fantasy-world in the wondrous ‘Alice in Wonderland’) who spoke eloquently but without much sense : ‘The time has come, to talk of many things, of shoes and ships and sealing-wax, of cabbages and kings – And why the sea is boiling hot and whether pigs have wings.’ Sounds apt in present day soap-opera that’s playing out !

The Bard, who said everything uncanny about human nature and its fickle ways had his ‘Macbeth’ speak the ephemeral truth ‘Life is but a walking shadow, a poor player that struts and frets his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more’. As if talking about the self-styled leader who claims to save the world, the Bard would add ‘It is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing’ ! And now the world watches it all unfolding with bated breath, each day presenting  a new challenge..

Speaking of  powerful rulers and their quests and conquests, there was ambitious ‘Julius Caesar’ and his the trusted friend, the honorable ‘Brutus’ who betrays him but in course of  tumultuous journey says lines centuries ago that mirrors what we witness today : 

“There is a tide in the affairs of men, Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;
Omitted, all the voyage of their life, Is bound in shallows and in miseries..”.  

But what of ‘love’ and ‘undying loyalty’ that plays such an important part in all human dramas, as one story after another captures emotional and moral senses of the people at large, here’s what Shakespeare’s cheeky character ‘Puck’ says in that eternally sublime comedy ‘Mid-Summer Nights Dream’ : ‘Course of true love never did run smooth, Love looks not with eyes, but with the mind, And therefore is the winged Cupid, Painted blind’

Veteran Indian cricketer Ajinkya Rahane recently announced his decision to step down as Mumbai’s Captain in domestic cricket through a social media post.

Cricket aficionados are familiar with ‘Jinks’ Rahane’s credentials as one of India’s finest mid-order, technically sound and quality Test batters in the classic ‘Dravid’ mould who’s finest hour came when he led India from the front to a famous Series victory against the powerful Aussies ‘Down Under’ in 2021 after Captain Virat Kohli had to suddenly return to India. A gripping Web-series titled ‘Bandhon Mein Tha Dum’ on OTT tells the story of indomitable courage. India played with substitutes after injuries to the frontline players.

Now 37 years old and out of favour with the quirky selectors, Rahane remains a student of the game who lets the bat do all the talking, never sulks and complains but harbours the desire to again play for India. The Selectors in their wisdom feel he’s over the hill but instead of ‘walking into the sunset’, Ajinkya continues to hone his skills on the field.  He is the quintessential ‘nice guy’ of Indian Cricket, a team-man to the core, who’s willing to step down as Captain (in Ranji Trophy for Mumbai) and make way for the younger lot.

People hold different views on the stepping down from leadership roles. For one despite loads of experience it’s not that easy to deliver results consistently and remain successful as a leader. Another truth is losing the respect of the team that has members with more talent & promise. In every sphere of work-life and enterprise there’s need for succession planning & reining in fresh leaders to usher new ideas and expanding into new horizons. Ajinkya Rahane has set a template that is worth emulating, but it’s a tough act to follow.

People, if allowed to conjure what their dream-house would look from inside, would go for ornate furniture, chandeliers, porcelain dishes, crystal glasses, velvet cushions, soft linen and all that’s exquisite. Dreams don’t cost anyway ! However, in a departure from gentile tastes, I’d always dreamt of (but could never manage) a home with a large sized study having a classy, well stacked,  chestnut brown, mahogany bookcase extending across right up to the ceiling ! One could say, visit a successful solicitor’s chamber or a CA’s office and such things do exist, why then dream about it ? Ah, for the reason that my bookcase wouldn’t have law, taxation, accountancy journals but for real reading of old classics, fiction, biographies, anthologies of many genres and by great writers ! 

I’m convinced that despite the digital challenge mounted by e-book forms and an expanding virtual readers’ space more inhabited by the younger generation, the printed form will always remain in vogue for sheer tangibility, its physical access and beauty of ‘feel and touch’. Bedtime stories, playbooks, picture stories, comics were an integral part of our growing up with the book tucked under the pillow. A leather set of famous works by great authors were favourite b’day gifts for kids and old alike (till new apps, gadgets, credit cards took over gifting modes). Yet books keep making comebacks like stars !

Books play a very important role in shaping the lives of human beings, are the storehouse of knowledge and a reflection of the habits of people. Every house must possess a bookcase/bookshelves, for they change the environment of the house, bring positivity and add that ‘touch of class’. Every bookshelf has a different story to tell which depends upon the kinds of books and materials that it stores in it. Books scattered in various places are tough to access when required. Kept in smart bookshelves, arranged, catalogued they look so grand.

However, homes today are small abodes, crammed with stuff with little space for bookshelves leave alone an elaborate bookcase. But let’s not lose hope for these days various space-saving designs and styles are available in the market which one has to browse to meet specific needs. Some people believe in multi-purpose book-shelves for displaying fancy items which is not fair to the books. Real book-lovers ‘Have a book for everything and let every book find a place’ !

( Web Series on Sony Liv)

It’s disheartening that one’s search through the maze of action films and web-serials on offer on OTT platforms of crime and thriller genre generally have content and stories highly contrived, unreal and wind up with tame endings after dragging one through 7-8 episodes of predictable twists & turns that test your endurance &  faith in good cinema .

Therefore, one’s duty bound in recommending this realistic, gripping Court-room based web-series that grabs your attention such that you binge-watch through the entire five episodes in one go, as we did recently. The series ‘Court Katcheri’ (‘Sony Liv’) was akin to a ‘surprise gift’ packaged in five crisp episodes for viewers without expectations that arise from pretentious stars and of glam & theatrics that surround them. Knowledgeable movie buffs understand that lesser known, fine actors drive themes with great content ! 

Somewhat in the cynically humorous genre of two more recent legal-themed web-series, ‘Patna Shukla’ & ‘Mamla Legal Hai’, this one has one a few more punches thrown with a generational conflict that all families face today. It is coming-of-age legal drama set in India’s district courts and explores emotionally charged human stories, high-stakes legal battles and harsh courtroom realities, all through the eyes of Param, a young man born into a town’s leading lawyer’s legacy but is determined to escape it, come what may. As he wrestles with family & societal pressures to follow in illustrious footsteps of his Dad, he’s exposed to rottenness of the system & messy truths that are part of  the legal set-up.

We marvel at brilliance of veteran actor Pawan Malhotra, who plays the domineering yet soft-hearted Dad trying to mould his son into higher echelons of his legal profession but with no idea of his son’s aspirations. Why don’t such actors get meaty roles outside OTT.  

Ashish Verma as Param is outstanding as he tries to show confusion and then rebellion against the system he finds is flawed & corrupt. It’s a troubled journey he charts till the realities dawn on him. After all, Judiciary remains last resort for redressal of our issues.

Puneet Batra, is very impressive as Suraj Beria, the ethical advocate assistant waiting for his moment to shine & loyal friend whose help sometimes backfires. A shining cameo comes from Priyansha Bharadwaj as Advocate Anusha, who valiantly defends her client. The setting’s real & legal skullduggery is relatable. There’s a slice of life here to witness !

Some things, objects and persons in life have their designated purpose but are seldom celebrated because of their sheer inability to make their presence speak loudly. Yet take them out and you’re left virtually immobile and helpless. Look at humble shoestrings, (or shoelaces) that we rarely pay heed to while quickly getting ready. Yet more than just functional fasteners for shoes, they play a crucial role in comfort, safety and even style.

There’s something utilitarian about shoestrings and there’s overriding self-dependence attached to it. A child grows up to small life lessons include learning to making a tight knot while tying the shoelaces, else they’d get undone and make one trip and fall over. Many of us would recall our school teachers would look sternly at untidy boys with dirty shoes and the shoelaces not tied. Parents & teachers exasperated with poor performance at times made unkind remarks using idioms like ‘Can’t even properly tie your shoelaces’. Many hurt by this would (metaphorically) tighten the shoe-laces & ‘pull up their socks’.

There’s also a statement in austerity involved here. We were taught early about working on ‘shoestring’ budgets that forced us to spend frugally and to save for a ‘rainy day’. In today’s times, strict financial planning focuses on essential spending and keeps track of costs incurred. Millennial have realized that ‘borrow & splurge’ isn’t so wise in the long run. ‘Shoestring’ budgets financially come to rescue in paying debts & buying a house.

‘Shoestrings’ mostly remain invisible covered as they are by trousers (or dresses) but look at the stellar role they play as we move on. Generally unaffected by lint or debris, they ensure consistent performance. More than just a detail, they are a fundamental component of footwear, contributing to both the practical functionality and aesthetic appeal of shoes. That said, for senior citizens like us, there’s a problem in bending over & keeping balance while tying the shoelaces. Relax, sit down comfortably & then do it !

Many lessons can be derived here. Being at the lowest rung or order doesn’t diminish the importance of anyone specially in workplaces which have hierarchal set-ups. In my own experience the organisation relies heavily for smooth operations on its ground staff. They form the foundations of efficiency in output. Left loose, the whole system can trip !

Many of our friends from the 60s-70s era would get that tinge of nostalgia mixed with excitement at the mention of old war films based on thrilling novels by iconic writers. Among dozens that we devoured in  our youth, one of our all time favourites remains the best-seller by Alistair Maclean, ‘The Guns of Navarone’ written in 1957.

Himself a WWII veteran, Alistair Maclean served in the Royal Navy from 1941 to 1947, initially as an ordinary seaman and later as a leading torpedo operator. His wartime experiences saw true to life reflections in his other famous novel like ‘HMS Ulysses’ of a battle on high seas. It’s reported that Maclean apart from being a prolific writer who enthralled us with spell binding WWII adventures of the likes of ‘Where Eagles Dare’, ‘Ice Station Zebra’ and ‘Fear is the Key’, turned into a successful screenplay writer too.

Talking of ‘Guns of Navarone’ cannot be complete without mention of the magnificent film (1957) based on the book with an all-star cast led by Gregory Peck, Anthony Quinn and David Niven, which weaves an amazing tale of a bunch of reckless, intrepid men of steel, who are chosen to undertake a near impossible mission of destroying the deadly bombers which protect the Nazis from an attack from the seas by the Allies. ‘Netflix’ has now been able to transport us to our days of adventure movies with such classics !

At one time we were regulars of the ‘war movies’ club which drew on the WWII stories of the real & fictional victories & exploits of the Allied Forces against all powerful ruthless Germans and heroics of the undaunted Allied soldiers in fighting the Nazis. There were , plenty in the 1960-70’s decade apart from Maclean, we had been weaned on Frederick Forsyth’s ‘Day of the Jackal’ and “The Odessa File’ to Ken Follet’s ‘Eye of the Needle’, all made into gripping war movies. Then there were the war classics like ‘Bridge on River Kwai’, ‘The Longest Day’, ‘The Great Escape’, ‘Battle of the Bulge’, ‘633 Squadron’, ‘Patton’ and many others, it was a magnificent genre of untold courage and bravery.

The craze for war novels and consequently such epic dramas on celluloid diminished in last four decades or so which saw the post-war re-emergence of many strong nations like Japan and China, the ensuing Cold War of super-powers, sweeping liberalization by economies, use of new technology and special effects in films and advent of Sci-fi flics, the ‘Superman’, ‘Spiderman’ cult, ‘Harry Potter’ mania among the youth and now with OTT platforms that changed the landscape of film-making !

For old-timers there was something inspirational and stirring in those epic sagas of war-time valour and sacrifice and the ‘larger than life’ characters that give us ‘goose-bumps’ even now ! In the last scene of the film ‘Guns of Navarone’, Peck says to Quinn ‘The mission is over, why are you not coming with us- how will you survive this place ?’ And Quinn says ‘It takes a lot to kill someone like me’ !

If you’re a Mumbaikar, then you might have lots to crib about in life & commuting when incessant ‘Paoos’ (in Marathi), ‘Baarish’ (in Hindi) or ‘Monsoon Mayhem’ (in simple Angrezi !) relentlessly descends on the Megacity and if the downpour starts on the long weekend and lashes you over the next week ! However, there are motivational quotes on the brighter side of the monsoon travails like “Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass but about dancing in the rain ! ” That’s what many youngsters do on the seaside rocks of Bandstand or by drenching in the waves on Marine Drive, Bollywood style.

Why do we associate memorable parts of our childhood with nostalgia, the minute we think of rains. One reflection is of school and the essays on, yes, “A Rainy Day”. I recall that almost everyone had idyllic visions of the scene almost poetic in their discourse. In our themes, the ‘rains were not mainly in the plains’ (unlike in Spain !) but the poet in us would conjure  the vast countryside scene with lush green flora awashed by droplets of rain as the cool moist air would be resounding with chirping of birds. Most of us would then turn into unrefined versions Keats and Wordsworth ! 

The other memory relates to the lines that someone playfully said ‘When life gives you a rainy day, play in the puddles !’. It would be sheer joy when heavy showers would force the school to close unexpectedly and we would spend the day left to our own resources. This would entail a lot of splashing and jostling in the puddles by the boys and would end with us paddling or swimming the roads to reach home. Parents, in those days, were more liberal with the ‘rainy day’ syndrome and couldn’t be bothered with our wet and soggy look. Rains were pure and getting wet was part of growing up !   

That gay abandon with which rains were greeted seems a long time ago when nature was kind and unrevengeful. There’s an air of unpredictability and lack of preparedness and we’re beset in a state of emergency with the unprecedented cloudbursts over hilly areas and flash floods inundating everything in its way and posing great challenges to disaster management. When non-stop rains come with unrelenting force there’s a near deluge in the major cities with water-logging, flooding in low lying areas, roads brimming with pot holes, collapsing dilapidated structures.. The poor commuter struggles with traffic jams, stalled cars, inordinate delays in running of  buses & locals. Not the ‘happiest of times’ !

Not being aware of the school curriculum, wonder what today’s children would write in the Essay on ‘A Rainy Day’. Maybe it’s no longer part of their syllabus !      

13^th August was celebrated as the “International Left handers” day  all over the world, following the tradition started in 1996 to show solidarity to those exceptionally doughty lefties (said to be 12% of the world’s population).

Also called south-paw, the left-handed ones have not had it easy and there has been doubts raised on them. As per our Indian custom, girls have always been encouraged to be right-handed, never mind the natural flair, compliments are not supposed to be left-handed, the left-wing folks have their own critics and when we say “the left hand doesn’t know what the right is doing“ the reference is not flattering ! Even the word “dexterity” shows a right-handed bias. The term dexter  means “right” and refers to being “right-handed” on both sides.

Be that as it may, the world has had its share of great and extraordinary lefties including Albert Einstein, Charlie Chaplin, Bill Gates and the US Ex President Barack Obama to name a few. The sporting world has seen many tennis legends  of  the likes of John Mackinroe, Rafeal Nadal and Martina Navratilova among others,  while cricket lovers would still revel in the classy cover drives of greats like Neil Harvey (Australia ), David Gower ( England ) and our own Yuvraj Singh and “God of the Off-side” Dada Sourav Ganguly, left-handed batters creating poetry in motion when wielding the willow ! Naturally, the greatest all-rounder, Gary Sobers was also a left-hander ! Sachin Tendulkar being ‘God of Cricket’ is said to be ambidextrous !

Being left handed probably gives greater versatility and style to many men and women as it has also been seen as a trait indicating creativity, boldness and strength of character of such people who are also endowed of musical and artistic abilities. It is no longer inauspicious to be left handed as long as one is really good at what he or she does or achieves ! The living legend Big B once shared a childhood memory of being scolded by his father for writing with his left hand which led him to switch to the right hand instead, though he was a natural lefty. He can write with both hands !

As for me, I’ve grown up with some genuine left-handers of immense talent and skill as two of my four sisters (one elder and one younger) are in that class. Having known many lefties in my time, I’ve always been impressed with their repertoire and resourcefulness. In fact, my home & life depends entirely on a person who’s not only a very deft left-hander but dishes out various cuisines in no time waving the ‘ladle’ gloriously ! Admittedly I’ve found it eminently favorable, being on her right side !